The first dance...the first song....your song

When couples are considering their Brides music that obvious question of what song they will dance to as their first as a married couple arises. It is a special song that will be embedded in the memory of the bride and groom and your guests as well (hopefully for the right reasons!) for a very long time. My friend is getting married this summer and her and her fiancé have gone through about seven suggestions as what to choose and have not yet come to a conclusion - its not as easy as it may seem!

 

 

 

 

If you and your spouse to be already have 'a song' that is yours and you want to use it on your Brides day, you are all sorted out....kind of. What if nobody knows the song? That might be a little bit of a problem as your guests will also need to feel a connection to what they are listening to. Also bear in mind, anything really slow will lack tempo, feeling and fail to surge emotions and anything too fast will require a complex dance routine that could be a little difficult to learn. Don't forget the size of the dress and the high heels too!!!!

 

Your first song as a married couple should reflect on both of you as individuals, your inspirations and desires and the coming together of you both as one unit and the love that you have shared between you in the past and in the life that you have ahead of you.

 

 

 

 

Here is what Bridess Online found to be the Top 2013 Brides first songs:

 

Make You Feel My Love – Adele
Diamonds – Rihanna
Kiss Me – Ed Sheeran
Your Song – Elton John/Ellie Goulding
What Makes You Beautiful – One Direction
I Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz
Marry You – Bruno Mars
At Last – Etta James
Greatest Day – Take That
Everything – Michael Bublé

 

 

Here are some others that I adore, there's a bit of variety here:

 

Amazed - LoneStar

I can't help falling in love with you - Elvis Presley

From This Moment - Shania Twain

You and Me - Lifehouse

Just the Way you are - Bruno Mars

Come Away with Me - Norah Jones

I don't wanna miss a thing - Aerosmith

I'm Yours - Jason Mraz

Songbird - Eva Cassidy

By Your Side - Sade

Never Let Me Go - Florence & The Machine

Ho Hey - The Lumineers

Make You Feel My Love - Adele

When The Stars go Blue - Ryan Adams

First Day of my life - Bright Eyes

Iris - The Goo Goo Dolls

 

Once you have chosen your song, inform your band and if it something that they can't play or you want the original song you can have it play from the ipod through the speakers. Dance lessons are always a good idea if budget and time allows. If you fancy doing something a little different this would be the way to go.

 

 

 

 

 

First Brides songs are often those that I try to hide in a corner for as they clutch at my heart strings as I'm a big romantic at heart. Since I was a flowergirl at my Aunties Brides when I was six years old and cried to 'Anything I do I do it for you' by Bryan Adams, I have cried at every single first dance at Bridess since, clearly the Brides industry is for me!

 

 

Photo Credits Top to Bottom: Pine Peaks Event Centre, Viva School of Dance, The Bridal Guide.

 

 

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4 Ideas to Make Your Brides as Unique as You Are!!

Planning a Brides takes a lot of energy and forethought. From table linens to dresses, you want to make the right decisions while still incorporating your personal style. Standing out in a crowd of like-minded brides is never easy, but here are four ideas to make your Brides as unique as you are.

 

 

1. Customized art right from the start.

 

Your bridal shower invitations set the tone of your Brides, as they're the first glimpse that people have into the colors and theme of the event. Many brides opt for invitations that hint at the Brides itself, so now is the time to choose customized bridal shower invitations. These can be elegant and traditional or quirky and fun based on what fits your personality. Whatever your personal preferences, you should announce your shower in style and let people know what to expect in terms of theme for the big day.

 

 

 

2. An impressive first dance.

 

Many couples are ditching the traditional ballroom waltz in favour of a more personalized expression during their first dance as a married couple. You and your spouse can coordinate an elaborate dance or simply opt for non traditional music and dance like no one's watching. People will enjoy getting a glimpse of your fun side, and you'll have more fun and feel less pressured by choosing music and a dance that fits your personal styles.

 

3. The ultimate "candy bar."

 

The "candy bar" has been a popular trend for several years because it allows couples to offer their guests a fun dessert table instead of a traditional assortment. Personalize this delightful treat further by incorporating your favourite childhood candies and treats. If you can find vintage candies, then include those, too, for a special blast to the past. Another fun way to add your unique flavour is to include shots of a personalized Brides cocktail (alcoholic or non) created by you and your spouse.

 

4. Keepsakes they won't throw out.

 

Let's be honest: how many times have you gotten a Brides souvenir and discarded it the moment you got home? Incorporating elements of your personal style with keepsakes will ensure that people actually keep them. One idea is to include a picture of you and your spouse on postcards with the date of the Brides. On the back of each one, write a personal message. You can be as detailed as you like, and people will appreciate the gesture. Plus, since it's a picture, they won't be likely to discard it.

This is a guest blog written by Jayla Barnsen, a freelance writer from Oregon.

All images can be found on Pinterest.

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The DIY Brides Event with IKEA Dublin: Part Two

For those of you who missed Part One, do check it out for fabulous DIY ideas for your Brides ceremony and drinks reception; including a mosquito net Brides ceremony focal point, an heirloom bouquet made from curtain pole ends, fabric flowers, a wishing tree and a very easy photo booth idea!

Up in Part Two of The DIY Brides Event with IKEA Dublin round up we have:

• A Magnetic Table Plan 
• An adorable way to present your cutlery
• Sash Escort Cards 
• A hanging centerpiece 
• Net Curtain Overlays 
• Rose Fold Napkins { that take 10 seconds } 
• A Fairy Light Back Drop made from Net Curtains 
• A stunning Photo Booth 
• A ceiling rose { from net curtains that cost €6.00 for the pair! } 
• Super Simple Brides Favours 
• And a little childhood fun for adults! 

{ Big Shout Out to my dear dear friend Susan Kennedy from Lensmen PR & Photographic Agency who came along and took these great photos of the event... Susan is an absolute doll, do check her out if you are yet to choose your Brides photographer! }

Would you believe that that table overlay is actually a net curtain?? 

This easy peasy Table Plan was made from a magnetic notice board, fabric, lace, card and some magnets! Simple & Sweet!! 

This stunning rose napkin fold only takes 10 seconds and can be prepared weeks before your Brides and boxed up for delivery to your venue, if its not something they can supply for! 

What do you think of my fun & funky photobooth? 

Milk & Cookies { from these adorable milk bottles, available at IKEA of course, would make a super midnight snack for your partying guests! }

The whole DIY Brides Event at IKEA was a dream come true for me. It was a delight and an honour to be allowed into the store and create such {great} looks and DIY ideas to share with you all... as I mentioned before, there is a chance, due to the massive demand to attend both evenings, that it will be run again, so be sure you to keep you eyes peeled and sign up to our newsletter for future news!! 

Big thank you again to IKEA and all their amazing staff and of course to each and everyone of you who attended!! 

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Infographic: Choosing Your First Dance, by SimplyBridal.com

The all important first dance, where a couple is able to present themselves in front of their families and friends. Often times there is so much planning and hard work that goes into these, but which dance is right for you? The high-energy foxtrot? What about the classy waltz? Perhaps a rumba routine? Or, even salsa? With SimplyBridal’s newest strategy guide, making these decision just became one step easier.

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